Reviews for #Open: ENM IRL

I mostly gave the review due to the membership. I liked that you can make a profile for a couple, and both partner can have the profile on their phone, but if you want the membership, each person has to pay for their own membership. I think if they share a profile, they shouldn’t have […]

Created my profile and started to try to use the app. Could only see one other person’s profile, unless I specifically searched hashtags. This is my first time on the app, I’m not really sure what hashtags to search, I just want to be shown available potential matches like literally every other dating app. Then […]

Great idea for an app and good design, but glitchy 🙁 I got a match and when I try to message them back the app gives me a warning that says “too many requests” and then crashes. My poor sad match is going to think I left them hanging! Also it seems like there is […]

Used to be able to see several profiles at once in a grid layout. Now they blur the photos unless you pay. Now you have to open one profile at a time making multiple clicks to move to the next profile. The app was never easy to use and the purposefully made it harder so […]

It is IMMENSELY frustrating to not be able to see the people who have liked you, or send messages to anyone unless you’ve matched, 😤 or get a subscription. I’d like to save my money for actual dates. The hashtags are a fun idea, but there is a limit to the number you can add. […]

The concept looks great. As a free member I have not had any luck actually connecting with anyone real, despite having a large number of people liking. Because of that I am reluctant to pay, there are just too many apps with fake profiles. I keep coming back in the hope that I will make […]

This was quite disappointing. I got the app to try and I couldn’t even get past the location page. I wanted approximate location and it forced me to use precise location which I didn’t feel comfortable with. When I got fed up and clicked use precise location, it wouldn’t allow me to move into the […]

Only been on for a short time, but mostly it seems like tinder with extra steps. The biggest issue for me in profile creation is the hashtag thing? It’s so open ended that I found it a little daunting to set up, would be easier with maybe a few suggestions for each category. Also would […]

Logged on for the first time in a while lately. The app still lacks a really large user base. Lately there have been Notifications that all questions about your boundaries or other subjects, but clicking them brings you to just the app itself and also there’s NO WAY to turn off just those notifications. If […]

The user interface isn’t difficult but is somewhat unintuitive. I’ve been using the app for a few months, and despite regular use, I have gotten no matches and as far as I can tell, maybe three people have liked my profile but haven’t actually matched with them. Also, the matching function doesn’t really seem to […]

So far loving the way the app is set up! It’s a little slow because of the small user base, but once there’s more people I’m 100% positive this is going to be the tinder for ethically non monogamous peoples. However, I do think that “doing away with distance restrictions” is not a great idea. […]

I like the idea of this app and the potential that it has. What I don’t like is whenever I set a distance limit for profiles in a 50 mile radius it keeps showing me profiles that are further and further away. Then it forces me to adjust MY radius because instead of giving me […]

The app is decent but has a lot of limits that don’t encourage actually connecting with people, especially during the pandemic. I do appreciate the educational messages that come from the community though. I wish that more people actually wrote things besides “ask me anything” for their profile descriptions. You don’t get to know much […]

The app has a good concept, but I think if someone pays they should be able to pick and talk to who ever they want. I know your trying to be cautious but that is why you have a block so people can block other people if need be. Then keep the non payers where […]

So far its ridiculous. We’ve matched with a couple people but the app will not let us communicate nor let us add our Instagram. In fact I was scolded for typing it out because it wouldn’t add it. What is up? Edit: The team worked really fast to correct the error (apparently multiple accounts were […]

I so wanted to like this app. I could deal with the difficult/non-intuitive parts of the UI, but there is nothing in the free app that’s functional. I can look and like, even sparkle someone, but if you don’t pay, you see nothing. I can’t see likes, sparkles, can’t message anyone. It’s never going to […]

Distance. And then you put a little note that says “connection > distance”. Excuse me? Some of us can’t connect over the distances you’re suggesting, and that is in no way a decision for a low-tier app developer to make. Really thought this was gonna be the app that could help me actually connect to […]

Needs to be more intuitive. Previously, I was struggling to only see profiles over 100mi. I’d rather just be told no one is nearby but there’s no max distance. I thought there was no deleting in boundaries so I had Age as a hard limit instead age play for a while. Maybe put under that […]

Just deleted my account. I liked the hashtag system, but the app is poorly designed. They warned me that I had to remove something from my profile… Then it wouldn’t let me because the save button kept disappearing when I went to edit. I even took a screenshot to prove it, but it wouldn’t let […]

Pretty good app. Great flexibility in how to describe yourself and your relationship, and it’s easy to filter the sorts of profiles you’d like to see (such as filtering out couples’ profiles). Significantly more users now compared to a couple years ago! A few minor difficulties, like not being able to delete hashtags from the […]